Why is it that so many men said that cheating is so much easier when they wear their wedding rings at a bar? They attract more women, unscrupulous women, when they have it on than when they don’t.
Our research tells us why….
Women (people) want what others have.
The ring symbolizes a certain status;
1) He’s valued enough by another woman (usually another woman) who married him, so he must be a good catch
2) He might be into a fling and doesn’t want to get serious
3) She might be able to lure him away, play a game of it, and see if she can win
4)….one of the most important from a few years back… If he’s married, he’s probably “clean” – no condum needed – and safe for her to fool around with.
On the other hand,
Some women start out being drawn to the guy with a ring not because they want to initiate an affair, but because they DON’T. They think men with Rings are safe to talk to; they’re MARRIED! “They WON’T HIT ON YOU!”… wrong… some men use their rings to start up conversations easily then move into a schpeel about how the wife at home doesn’t understand him, doesn’t appreciate him, doesn’t listen like she’s doing, blah blah blah… Get the picture? All the while hoping for a new cheating partner, if only for the night.
Since our research only talked to hundreds of men, any you readers are in the thousands, what are your thoughts? Have you seen such behavior in your part of the world?